Mojo Brookzz: Men Should Own Up To Cheating, Not Seek Forgiveness

Mojo Brookzz Blasts Cheating Men: ‘Don’t Take Me Back, Get Rid of Me!’

Mojo Brookzz isn’t holding back when it comes to infidelity. On a recent episode of Club Shay Shay, he laid out his strong stance: if you’re caught cheating, don’t expect forgiveness. Instead, he believes the cheater should accept responsibility and be let go. “If I get caught cheating, get rid of me,” Brookzz stated emphatically. He believes that seeking forgiveness after cheating is a sign of not truly owning up to the mistake.

The ‘Lick Back’ Theory: Then vs. Now

The conversation delved into the age-old concept of the ‘lick back,’ where a partner might seek revenge by cheating themselves. Brookzz noted a significant shift in how this plays out, especially with younger generations. “Back in the day, if a woman got a lick back, she really cared about that guy,” he explained. This implied that the revenge cheating was driven by lingering feelings and a desire to hurt someone they still cared about. He painted a picture of a deliberate, slow-burn revenge, comparing it to “cooking meat slow and low.”

However, Brookzz sees a different trend now. “This new generation, they different. They go to the club that night. You come with me. That’s different,” he observed. This suggests a more immediate and perhaps less emotionally charged approach to retaliation. He feels that today’s approach to infidelity and its aftermath is less methodical and more about immediate reaction rather than deep-seated emotional response.

Methodical Women vs. Random Men

The discussion also touched on the perceived differences in how men and women approach infidelity. Brookzz suggested that men might be more random in their cheating, while women tend to be more methodical. “Women are more methodical,” he said. “They had somebody maybe now they really want to get that lick back. It’s somebody you know, somebody close because they wanted to hurt.” This methodical approach, he believes, is aimed at causing maximum emotional damage, even if it means targeting someone close to the unfaithful partner, like a “homeboy.”

“They wanted to hurt. THEY GO GET YOUR HOMEBOY.”

This idea brought up a hypothetical scenario about protecting relationships. Brookzz proposed a rule: “You get to protect one.” This means in a situation where multiple partners or relationships are involved, you can only truly safeguard one person. The implication is that if you stray, you risk losing more than just the primary relationship. It’s a stark reminder that actions have consequences, and not everyone can be protected from the fallout.

Navigating Baby Mama Drama and New Relationships

The conversation then shifted to a common relationship dynamic: co-parenting and the complexities of introducing new partners. Brookzz addressed the tendency for men to return to their baby mamas, especially in the early years of a child’s life. “You going back over there because them baby mamas know what they be doing,” he remarked, describing how some ex-partners might strategically use their role as mothers to maintain a connection.

He strongly advised against this, stating, “You got to get to the point where you understand that having that type of dynamic with your baby mama is not going to allow you to really enjoy a life outside of it.” Brookzz believes that if a man knows his baby mama wants a family and he can’t provide that, he should let her move on. He criticized men who treat baby mamas as a “lifetime booty call,” emphasizing that it’s unfair to the woman and prevents her from finding what she truly wants.

Introducing New Partners to Kids: A Slow Burn

A significant portion of the discussion focused on the timeline for introducing new romantic partners to children. Brookzz personally believes in a cautious approach, especially for his daughter. “Me personally, I would say maybe about a year,” he stated, explaining his desire to avoid his daughter seeing a parade of different women in his life. He wants to ensure stability and prevent her from seeing him as someone with a constantly changing roster of partners.

Conversely, he suggested a much longer waiting period for women before they get engaged, proposing, “for women I think they should wait five years before they make sure damn damn they’re engaged.” This extended timeline is rooted in a concern for children’s well-being, especially girls. Brookzz highlighted the alarming stories of men harming stepdaughters, stressing the need for extreme caution and thorough vetting before bringing a new man into a child’s life. He believes it requires knowing “you going to be with this man for some time” before any introductions are made.

The hosts agreed that a rushed introduction is a bad idea. One speaker recalled a past relationship where the woman wanted to introduce her daughter within two months. He refused, stating, “out of respect for her father, I’mma pass.” He emphasized that as a father himself, he wouldn’t want his child exposed to a new partner so quickly, highlighting the importance of respecting the parental bond and prioritizing the child’s emotional safety above all else.

Source: Women Are More Forgiving Than Men & Women Cheating – Mojo Brookzz Reacts I CLUB SHAY SHAY (YouTube)