Mojo Brookzz: 3+ Kids A Dealbreaker, Dating Is Too Transactional

Mojo Brookzz Sets Dating Boundaries: No More Than Two Kids, Dating Is Too Transactional

Mojo Brookzz is setting clear boundaries when it comes to dating, and he’s not holding back. In a candid conversation on Club Shay Shay, the artist revealed that dating a woman with three or more children is a hard no for him. He believes that while women with kids are often more nurturing and responsible, too many children can complicate things, especially with other men in the picture. “Somebody ain’t going to like you,” Mojo stated, explaining that men often try to one-up him due to his career. He’d rather date a woman with one or two kids, finding them more responsible and nurturing, though he stressed this isn’t a knock against childless women. However, he did mention that some women without kids can come off as a bit selfish.

Dating Apps? No Thanks.

When asked about dating apps, Mojo was quick to shut down the idea. The thought of his face going viral on platforms like Tinder is a definite pass. “I just couldn’t imagine going viral because my face popped up on Tindle. I’m cool. I can’t uh-uh. I can’t do it,” he explained. He’s not looking for love on the internet and prefers a more organic connection.

The Shocking Rise of Post-Date Demands

The conversation then shifted to a new, and frankly surprising, trend Mojo has observed: women asking men for financial help after just one date. He shared a story about a friend who, after just one night with a woman, received a message asking for “four bands” (likely $4,000) because she was “trying to move.” Mojo was stunned, questioning when this became the norm. “Come on, Mo. Not Mo. Not Not after one date?” he exclaimed, suggesting that perhaps after a few months, a request like that might be understandable, but not after a single encounter.

“He showed me the message. Hold on, you just, so when when did you decide you was going to move? Before or after me? Cuz it damn sure seemed like you decided to move when you were doing just fine.”

Dating Feels Increasingly Transactional

Mojo expressed frustration with how transactional dating has become. While he’s happy to help someone if he has the means, he feels that too often, the expectation is immediate financial support. “Here’s my thing with that though. Like, I don’t mind helping anybody. I don’t mind it at all. If I got it and I can help you, I’ll help you. But I feel like sometimes, you know, everything these days is is just so transactional,” he said. His ideal scenario? Be upfront about financial needs before getting intimate. “If you going to ask for the $4,000, let me know before we lay down,” he advised, emphasizing that this allows him to make an informed decision about the relationship’s potential.

The $5,000 a Month Relationship Myth

The discussion touched upon the idea, often pushed on podcasts, that a man must give a woman $5,000 a month to prove his love. Mojo finds this notion absurd, contrasting it with his grandparents’ era, where financial gifts were far more modest. “They don’t. So just think about how much he… So what’s he gonna do at his place? Does he live? Does he have a car? Does he have to pay rent? No. Does he have to pay bills?” Mojo questioned the logic, noting that these demands often seem based on a perceived wealth rather than reality. He humorously added that he’s been wearing baggier clothes lately to avoid looking like he has too much money.

Longing for Genuine Connection and Marriage

Despite the challenges, Mojo is still a believer in marriage and finding a good, consistent partner. He spoke about his past experiences juggling multiple women, comparing it to the peace he found with just one. “I got to argue with this one instead of the seven,” he joked, but quickly added, “It’s just not worth it. I rather have one woman. We build this brick by brick.” He pointed to his parents, who have been together for nearly 40 years, as a testament to lasting relationships through thick and thin. He feels social media often creates unrealistic expectations of perfect, rose-tinted relationships, when in reality, many face struggles that aren’t publicly shared until a breakup occurs.

The Double Standard: Obligation vs. Expectation

The conversation highlighted a perceived double standard, referencing YK Osiris’s statement that women shouldn’t be obligated to cook or clean without a ring. Mojo and his co-hosts questioned this, arguing that if women aren’t obligated to do traditional wifely duties without a commitment, then men shouldn’t be obligated to pay rent, buy luxury items, or fund extravagant trips before deciding to propose. “We got to do all this stuff, right? For us to decide that we want you to be our wife. But you ain’t obligated to make me nothing to eat,” Mojo pointed out the imbalance. He believes that while no one is strictly obligated, the lack of reciprocity – pouring into each other – is where the friction lies. He questioned why, if he’s working hard to provide trips and possessions, a partner wouldn’t feel inclined to offer something in return, like a home-cooked meal.

Moving Forward: Authenticity Over Social Media Perceptions

Ultimately, Mojo’s message is about authenticity and realistic expectations in relationships. He believes people are too often influenced by what they see and hear online, rather than focusing on genuine connection and mutual effort. “They just living off based off what somebody said,” he lamented. His hope is for a return to relationships where partners invest in each other, not just financially, but emotionally and practically, understanding that true partnership involves give and take, regardless of marital status.

Source: Mojo Brookzz Can’t Date A Woman With 3+ Kids I CLUB SHAY SHAY (YouTube)